LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

 HI GUYSS.

MY FIRST BLOG WILL BE ABOUT LDR. 

"TAK LAMA TU DIORANG"

"NANTI BF DIA CARI LAIN LA TU"

"LDR NEVER WORKS DO, KAU BREAK JE DGN DIA"

THIS IS THE COMMON THINGS THEY SAY ABOUT LDR.

FIRST OF ALL, REMOVE ALL OF THAT KIND OF THINKING

LDR MAY HAPPEN BECAUSE OF A LOT OF THINGS: STUDIES, WORKS. MOSTLY STUDIES.

SO, HOW TO MAINTAIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU ARE IN A LONG-DISTANCE RELAY ??

EASY

1. TRUST

TRUST IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN A RELATIONSHIP. U HAVE TO TRUST YOUR PARTNER. BUT, YANG DI PERCAYA TU JANGAN PULAK GATAL GATAL. " ALA, GF AKU RILEK JE, PASANG LAGI SATU LA MCM NI. BUKAN DIA TAHU PUN" 

SHE KNOWS GUYS. I DON'T KNOW HOW BUT TRUST ME, SHE KNOWS IT.

PEREMPUAN HAVE A LOT OF SPECIALTIES, ONE OF IT IS, SHE ALWAYS FINDS OUT.

KALAU DIA DAH START TANYA MACAM MACAM, 90% SHE ALREADY KNEW THE ANSWERS. AND, THAT BRINGS US TO POINT 2.

2. BE HONEST

JUJUR JE LA. NO MATTER HOW BITTER IT IS, JUST BE HONEST. IT HURTS MORE IF YOUR LOVED ONE LIED TO YOU. 

TELL YOUR PARTNER EVERYTHING THAT THE PERSON NEED TO KNOW. TO GAIN TRUST, YOU HAVE TO BE HONEST, SO, IF U ARE NOT HONEST AT THE FIRST PLACE, DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT TRUST AND HAVING A LONG RELATIONSHIP.

3. SPACE

GIVE SOME TIME FOR EACH PERSON. BUKANNYA KITA MATI PUN KALAU TAK CONTACT, OTP SELALU. YOUR PARTNER NEED TO FOCUS ON THEIR STUDIES JUGA. THEY HAVE FRIENDS. THEY NEED TO GO OUT TOO SOMETIMES.

LAGIPUN, GIVING THEM SPACE MAKES THE RELATIONSHIP MORE MATURE AND HEALTHY.

4. DON'T BE OVER JEALOUS

THIS WORKS FOR BOTH GENDER. TO ME, I'M THE JEALOUS TYPE. BUT U HAVE TO CONTROL IT. TAK SERABUT KE SAMPAI CAKAP DGN YOUR FRIENDS PUN NAK JEALOUS, THIS BRINGS US TO POINT NUMBER 1. U HAVE TO TRUST EACH OTHER. JUST TRUST YOUR PARTNER YANG HE/SHE WONT DO ANYTHING THAT SHOULDN'T BE DONE.

5. MAKE SOME TIME FOR EACH OTHER

NO MATTER HOW BUSY U ARE, JUST MAKE SOME TIME FOR YOUR PARTNER. JUST A SIMPLE TEXT WILL DO, "DAH MAKAN KE?" OR " SIHAT TAK? " .

IT SHOWS THAT YOU CARE ABOUT HER, SEND A FEW PICTURES SOMETIMES. 

THIS THINGS LIKE TEXT, CALL MAKE YOUR PARTNER FEEL APPRECIATED. IF YOU'RE SO BUSY, TELL HER. 

"SORRY, I'M BUSY. I HAVE EXAMS NEXT WEEK AND I HAVE TO COVER A LOT OF TOPICS. I'LL CALL U WHEN I HAVE THE TIME"

AS SIMPLE AS THAT. YANG PARTNER DIA TU JANGAN BUAT BANGANG PULA NAK CONTROL SEMUA. SUPPORT EACH OTHER.

TAK TAKUT KE ADA ORG LAIN YG BUAT DIA RASA APPRECIATED? 

SO I THINK THAT'S ALL, MY TIPS ABOUT MAINTAINING A HEALTHY LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP.

TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I BLOG NEXT? 

- REDVELVET